A bit more about Online Identity.
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rhythmaningA couple of weeks ago, I was thinking about social networking, trying to work out how I felt about online identity.
When I was visiting some friends a short while after, they had a bit of a shock regarding their daughter’s online identity. A friend of hers had emailed her from school with a link to a website that was picked up by the school’s anti-pornography email filter. The headmaster had forwarded the email to my friend – he couldn’t look at the site (for obvious reasons!), and he wanted my friends to be aware of the email’s content.
It turns out that my friends’ daughter shares her name with a porn star.
(Actually, she shares her first name and her mother’s maiden name with a porn star; but it is the same thing, really.)
The girl’s friends had simply attached a google search of her name to the email; since they had done the search at school, they couldn’t have looked at the site that came top. (Thinking about it though, the school should really have better filters – I think you can set google to ignore porn websites: you’d have thought a school would want to do that!)
The mother was really freaked out by this; her husband and I were a lot less phased, which might simply be that as blokes we are aware of the commercial nature of most of the internet. She was also really disturbed that anyone googling her daughter’s and her names would find material like that, and that this would haunt her daughter through her life.
I can see it is a problem: if she takes her mother’s maiden name, which isn’t wholly unlikely, that is what employers or friends would google to see what was out there. But also, there is more or less nothing that one can do about it.
Except buy all possible web addresses comprised of your names!
When I was visiting some friends a short while after, they had a bit of a shock regarding their daughter’s online identity. A friend of hers had emailed her from school with a link to a website that was picked up by the school’s anti-pornography email filter. The headmaster had forwarded the email to my friend – he couldn’t look at the site (for obvious reasons!), and he wanted my friends to be aware of the email’s content.
It turns out that my friends’ daughter shares her name with a porn star.
(Actually, she shares her first name and her mother’s maiden name with a porn star; but it is the same thing, really.)
The girl’s friends had simply attached a google search of her name to the email; since they had done the search at school, they couldn’t have looked at the site that came top. (Thinking about it though, the school should really have better filters – I think you can set google to ignore porn websites: you’d have thought a school would want to do that!)
The mother was really freaked out by this; her husband and I were a lot less phased, which might simply be that as blokes we are aware of the commercial nature of most of the internet. She was also really disturbed that anyone googling her daughter’s and her names would find material like that, and that this would haunt her daughter through her life.
I can see it is a problem: if she takes her mother’s maiden name, which isn’t wholly unlikely, that is what employers or friends would google to see what was out there. But also, there is more or less nothing that one can do about it.
Except buy all possible web addresses comprised of your names!
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